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I’ve shared before that we can learn from ALL aspects of interconnected Life within this world and beyond, to include from children, animals, Extraterrestrials, and even from tiny insects and bugs.

We can also learn and grow from the OPPOSITES/CONTRASTS of Life—within DUALITY/POLARITY of physical worlds—that can help us to compare and realize what we prefer, and don’t prefer.

I’ve even been deeply touched by what some preschool children had shared from their free-spirited, authentic, refreshingly honest, and loving Selves (while I was working as an assistant teacher over a decade ago).

So it’s not about the physical world age of a Wise Soul, or any other earthly background labels; but definitely a FEELING of their essence, and whatever they express.

There are even wise, old Souls who are young adults, who radiate this powerful essence with their Full Presence, soulful eye contact, verbal expressions, and nonverbal cues that feel light, and isLight (and/or Unconditional Love frequency).

There are also not so wise old to elderly people—still wounded children within adult bodies (less experienced and less spiritually evolved Souls)—and everything in-between.

However, what I have found amusing is when many young adults within the various communities of Spirituality (especially in their late teens, 20’s, through early 30’s)—who read many books and/or watched videos, or collected data in other ways, often vicariously living through others’ experiences—teach others what Life, wisdom, love, relationships, etc. is, as well as what being spiritual is (or isn’t).

And this is without having APPLIED many of these spiritual concepts in physical world reality (especially within very to extremely challenging situations).

One female spiritual teacher said that she could never work 9 to 5 jobs, which is completely understandable, since that’s not where our greatest potential lies.

However, when we’ve had various job experiences jobs (and not just a few), we can learn a lot, and deeply relate to many within humanity—something only personal experiences can truly gift 💝 us.

But it’s definitely NOT easy to get out there and habitually Be the Light within the so-called darkness—NOT light 💡 within the light 💡 —and Be Unconditional Love (not just positivity) among much fear-based energies.

Many and most people can’t handle that, and that’s ok; hence, many like to convince themselves and others that they’re only existing in a 5D world with just sunshine 🌞, rainbows 🌈, and flowers 💐 (though that’s spiritual bypassing, and 5D is a state of Consciousness, not a specific location).

The true TRAILBLAZERS ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 are often out in the real world doing spiritual work, within many challenging situations.

Because deep transformation comes from the many practices of transmuting dense/“dark”/unknown/fear-based energies, NOT just in La La Land of positive vibes only.

Welcome to physical planet Earth—that includes OPPOSITES/CONTRASTS/DUALITY/POLARITY—where many types of energies exist.

ANYONE can mostly be within a safe, loving and supportive spiritual community and talk the talk.

But it takes A LOT of COURAGE to habitually WALK THE TALK, especially within the “darkest” of places, spaces, and relationships of many worlds.

Even if one has overcome childhood difficulties, that doesn’t necessarily make them a subject matter expert of Spirituality, and overall adult life in this world, while in their twenties; and to think so is very arrogant.

Spiritual CONCEPTS alone are completely different from Being LIVING WISDOM.

ANYONE can collect data, and regurgitate it as if they know (though only from the logical mind).

But we cannot truly know, unless we have actually EXPERIENCED and FELT (from the Heart).

So within SO MANY opportunities in Life to learn and grow from, a wide, rainbow 🌈 spectrum of our authentic EMOTIONS plays a KEY ROLE.

And though they’re not meant to take over the whole ship 🚢 —since our Spiritual Self is meant to be the Captain of the 🛳️—we’re still meant to integrate them as parts of our Full-Potential, Multidimensional, WHOLE Self/self, since we are physical beings as well.

So for spiritual teachers who claim to be emotionless, and/or have no ego…

Are they not an individual, physical self with a personality (aka ego self)?

Would they not be upset and/or cry if (heaven forbid) something tragic happened to their loved one?

Would they not feel angry or very fearful if some punk@$$ hacked into their bank accounts and left them with nothing?

If they were kidnapped and imprisoned within a porta potty that’s about to overflow 💩—which has been marinating in the scorching hot desert sun for weeks—would they not naturally feel disgust?

Would they not feel ecstatic joy if they won a billion dollars in a lottery?

Are they emotionless and feelingless robots?

One doesn’t need to drown in negative emotions (or habitually be controlled by them)…

but to not embrace our emotions—merely an authentic, inner compass of how we truly feel at any given moment—and not to honor our true feelings, is rejecting our humanity.

Also, ANYONE can tell other people what to do, but even doing anything can depend on a combination of many factors.

For instance, when I witness spiritual teachers tell people a very general teaching, like to LET GO, heal, and move on in order to have a high vibrational frequency, I don’t think they realize that they can cause more damage than healing at times.

Because healing is not meant to be rushed, though there can be rapid healing at times for those who are truly ready.

There are even “spiritual” businesses—whether online or at physical locations—that guarantee complete healing within a very short amount of time (to include days to a week).

There are even wild promises to help people to become a shaman within a couple of weeks through some online course (and they’ll receive a certificate afterwards 😳).

But YET, some of these owners, managers, healers, spiritual teachers, and/or “masters” running the show and advertising such things, aren’t even completely healed themselves, or close to it, which are definitely red flags 🚩.

One could wonder, “Aren’t you supposed to be Leading by Example?”

Why mislead and promise many people what you haven’t been able to achieve?

There are many different types of traumas, heart wounds, pain, and human suffering from childhood through adulthood that MANY Souls have experienced.

So it’s not beneficial to place everyone within limiting, man-made boxes 📦 because we think we know best.

For example, to tell someone who’s been gang raped as a young tween to JUST LET GO, stop focusing on the negative, and simply heal and transform, is not only completely insensitive, but also ignorant, and NOT deeply understanding and compassionate.

Deep healing even for one major, traumatic experience can be a process that takes as long as needed for that particular individual.

So for someone who has had multiple to many traumatic experiences—especially within many different earthly and otherworldly realities (from dream recall)—can take even longer to deeply heal and completely transform (though not always the case).

We’re all learning, growing, and evolving—mentally, emotionally, physically 🧬, and spiritually—at our own pace, within our own unique Soul paths.

So just because someone’s not rising in consciousness as fast as we want them to, doesn’t mean they’re not doing enough, that they’re not motivated to be unstuck, and/or they’re less than awakened.

For instance, there’s a young man—who has wonderful qualities and a lot of potential—and has been teaching about “High Vibes Only” to many people .

But yet, behind closed doors, it has been revealed multiple times, that he’s not always high vibes as he claims to be (which is completely natural and okay, since we’re also human, and not just spiritual Beings).

But what’s NOT beneficial and fair, is to teach many others to only or often be righteous, good, light, love, and other positive, high vibes (vibrational frequencies), when one is not able to always meet this unreasonable standard for physical world existence as (also) a human.

Because this makes it extra challenging for those who are trying to keep up with whatever spiritual teacher they place on a pedestal (due to NOT recognizing, realizing, and honoring the Divine within themselves as well).

Humans often think or believe that just because a spiritual teacher has many followers (like a million or more), that they’re the real deal.

Though this can apply to authentic/WHOLE Spiritual Teachers with integrated Heart/Mind, it’s NOT always about QUANTITY, but QUALITY of followers.

For instance, desperate followers—who place spiritual teachers (or even celebrities) on pedestals and practically worship them—are actually more lack mentality-based, because they believe that someone outside themselves is much more worthy, respectable, likable, lovable, honorable, knowledgeable, intelligent, wise, trustworthy, powerful, etc. than they are.

Plus, it’s WAY TOO EASY to only or often publicly show the positive aspects of ourselves.

Whenever I feel like it, I check a certain YouTube channel for any new information during the New Moon, Full Moon, and/Eclipse timeframes.

I was just planning to watch her video as usual, and share positive feedback if I felt like it. I thought it would be very simple.

But to my surprise, I experienced something unexpected, which I’m grateful for, since it further taught me to Be Discerning, even if it’s expected to only be positive.

I’ve learned more during this year of 2024, that as we sharpen our psychic abilities (especially intuition), our Higher Self/Spirit/Goddess/God/Universe will test our ability to master whatever we’re desiring to learn, grow and evolve from.

And it’s too easy to RECOGNIZE fear-based energies within obvious fear-based people, situations, circumstances, events, locations, things, etc.

But what’s very challenging to do is to RECOGNIZE subtle fear-based energies that can easily be hidden with certain (not all): smiles, laughter, and nice words, gestures, teachings, and actions.

For instance, when someone suggests to others, in an indirect and judgmental way, the following, I wonder what it’s truly about:

“Maybe I need to see a therapist”
”Maybe I need to read more about relationship psychology”
“Maybe if I learned more about spiritual practice that I’ve been trying to understand, I’d be more grounded”

I wonder if they don’t like the fact that they need to do these things (perhaps even more often), but haven’t been taking the action steps as needed.

Therefore, they’re projecting onto others what they’re claiming to PREDICT about others, since they are apparently subject matter experts in their field.

However, I have no doubt that someone who has truly received therapy for years, has read A LOT about psychology (plus studied and applied), and has been Fully Present (grounded) for many years…

would NOT say those words mentioned in bullet points above.

Someone who has had an abundance of personal experiences of the so-called “dark” side of humanity—that include a lot of heart wounds, major traumas, pain, hardships, and suffering—and who overcame many challenges, and deeply healed from them, will have deep understanding and compassion for others who may have gone through a tough journey from childhood through adulthood.

But those who haven’t, or did for a short period of their lives, can only SYMPATHIZE (at best) with their logical minds, rather than deeply EMPATHIZE from their FEELING Hearts.

Why? Because like the profoundly wise, Mystic, Carl Jung, had shared:

In other words, only the once, Wounded Healer can deeply heal others.

When we recognize off energies within an “only positive” or “high vibe” space, it’s not completely comfortable to shine Light on what’s unknown/dark—though intuitively and strongly sensed—since it often goes against the grain.

And many and most people don’t like what can be perceived as confrontations, because the belief is that it’s something negative (like example story in related post at bottom).

As shared within various example stories within this blog (especially within a recent post), I’ve learned from my personal experiences, that sometimes, we intuitively know we need to say or do something, even though it may not exactly be exciting.

One of my personal experiences—in a summary, since a detailed story has already been shared (link at bottom of post)—was listening to one of my Army, peer Interrogator Instructors express something during a meeting that wasn’t completely true.

As you’re probably already aware, the #1 fear of humans has been public speaking for a very long time, and understandably so.

So you can probably imagine that speaking up (and going against the grain) in a large room full of many people—let alone many Army and civilian Interrogator Instructors and higher leaders (mostly male)—can be very intimidating.

However, I FELT the usual, INTENSE energy within my heart chakra center, that soon rose up to my throat chakra area.

And I intuitively KNEW Spirit—within me, as me, and through me—desired to express truths; hence, wanted me to have the courage to SPEAK UP.

I’ve learned throughout my life that sharing truths that needed to be WITNESSED by many can be highly beneficial to all.

So I did, and the result was completely unexpected and amazing, despite having been yelled at (afterwards) by my other peer—who was a male Instructor partner—though he apologized later.

So this morning I did the same, even though I’ve always respected and liked this YouTuber.

I shared this message for video, “New Moon April 8th – ALL SIGNS HOROSCOPE – Aries Eclipse 2024”:

When we try too hard to only or mostly portray ourselves as positive (like “High Vibes Only”), righteous, good, light and love, while rejecting other aspects of Full-Potential, Multidimensional, WHOLE Self/self (Spiritual Self & physical self), this is what happens.

These suppressed “negative” energies (to include judgment)—deemed “unacceptable” by many within society—don’t go anywhere, but stew within, and then show up in subtle ways, especially via nonverbal cues, about 96% of our human communication.

So when we have a judgment towards whatever aspects of others/self we believe are wrong, bad, and negative, our facial expressions, tone of voice, body language, and even verbally expressed words, will reveal this.

Zodiac signs—like many other spiritual tools—are meant to provide guidance, but not in a way that’s contracting more than expanding, and not by placing certain (non-preferred) groups within a limiting box.

When we assume that ALL ____ (whatever sign) are more than likely going to be certain ways (especially negative), that can be discouraging.

Plus, it doesn’t inspire that particular zodiac sign to grow and evolve on all energetic levels—mentally, emotionally, physically 🧬, and spiritually—OUTSIDE society’s contained boxes 📦.

It’s just something to look deep within and ponder.

You’re overall wonderful Alina, and have great gifts to share with humanity and beyond.

But I have noticed a pattern within the broad spectrum of Spirituality, that there are many who only chase the Light, while not willing to look at their own shadows; hence, their judgment (and other “negative” energies) comes out in other ways that most people won’t catch, to include seeping out in passive-aggressive ways, and even exploding in aggressive ways.

In addition, many people who read many books about spirituality, think and believe (with their logical minds) that collecting, memorizing, and regurgitating data makes them very knowledgeable and wise.

However, it’s a WHOLE OTHER BALL GAME to habitually Be Living Wisdom (via experiential knowledge/wisdom) within challenging Life circumstances (boots on ground so to speak), while doing best to Be authentic/WHOLE, and transparently honest while sharing vulnerabilities as well (a great strength).

I don’t know where you get your information on how all these signs are various ways (especially the negative aspects).

But if it’s through reading what people publicly share—because they’re willing to be vulnerable—or from your personal interactions, you may want to broaden, expand your own perspective (since there are over 8 BILLION people on this planet).

It’s WAY TOO EASY to only show the world one’s likable and loving aspects (known as the individual and Collective Ego).

You seem to have many positive comments, and by sharing this message, I can easily be perceived as the negative one.

But I’m willing to be the so-called bad guy, if there’s a probability that it leads to highly benefiting others/self.

🙏

🖤🤍❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜🩷🩶🤎💖❤️‍🔥

Story above within many related stories recorded in post, “Embracing a Setback to Set Forward” (so-called failures in life—all stepping stones of success)