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Key Points Within This Post: Our Inner and Outer world CONFLICTS, BATTLES, and WARS ⚔️🪓💣🧨🩸—between seemingly OPPOSITE aspects of Life—has been never-ending throughout human history…
and this includes the “completely insensitive NARCISSIST” vs the “ultra-sensitive EMPATH” aspects.
It’s TIME ⌛️, that we, as a Collective, deeply heal and transform the “narcissist” vs the “empath” aspect—just one example set of MANY “opposite” parts of the WHOLE Self/self/others/Life.
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I fully trust that TRUE Enlightenment, is NOT about:
mostly book knowledge (as Sadhguru even shared)…
vicariously living through others’ personal experiences…
portraying oneself as way above others (without even embracing that one has a healthy version of an ego—basically an individual & physical self that’s part of WHOLE Self/self—due to one’s own judgment of the individual and Collective Ego; we can NOT be WHOLE while judging still parts of ourselves)…
only calm and peaceful without displaying a natural range of human emotions at times…
and unable to deeply empathize with MANY of humanity’s inner wounds—mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual—due to a lack of experiential knowledge/Being Living Wisdom.
It’s a WHOLE OTHER BALL GAME to Be Peace within a chaotic environment and/or relationship…
than being peace while sitting in a quiet and tranquil park surrounded by beautiful nature.
It’s MUCH EASIER to be positive within a positive environment.
That’s more than likely why (non-religious) Ascended Master Jesus, didn’t just hang out in peaceful environments with only positive, “High Vibe” people.
But rather, He BOLDLY chose to Be LIGHT 🕯️within the DARKNESS—i.e., sharing PROFOUND WISDOM to AWAKEN IGNORANCE—and He chose to Be LOVE 💖 with FEAR-based, LOST Souls/humanity(like sheep 🐑 ), to include: those with traumatized Soul wounds and heartbreaks, as well as the powerless, depressed, angry, bitter, hopeless, dis-eased, dying, “dead” etc..
Granted, this is FAR from stating that it’s best that we mostly or often surround ourselves within unhealthy environments, habitually negative and unkind people, or even stay in abusive relationships.
Absolutely NOT, since part of Unconditional Self-Love is to do our best to exist, Be, and live within a secure, safe, supportive, pleasant, and overall healthy environment where we can FLOURISH /THRIVE (and NOT just SURVIVE).
We also have a Divine birthright to experience our own version of Heaven on Earth—that we can manifest with a MERGED Heart/Mind-–which includes like-Minded and like-Hearted, authentic, honest, unconditionally loving, supportive, loyal, and healthy relationships.
But what I AM saying, is that IF we happened to have experienced much “DARKNESS” of Life from childhood through adulthood…
and we were able to develop a STRONG FOUNDATION of RESILIENCE, as well as gained much profound wisdom from MANY earthly and otherworldly life experiences, then chances are…
we will more than likely experience natural (NOT forced and achieved through mostly books) and TRUE REALIZATION / Enlightenment within this last lifetime (further details after the comment below; plus, within recent post, “Embracing Chosen Ones: Old 🗿& Ancient 🛸 Souls, Brave & Bold 🐲Trailblazers 🔥❤️🔥“:
I shared the following comment for YouTube video, “Narcissism Is a Defense Against BPD I OTTO KERNBERG“:
I’d like to share some OUT OF THE LIMITING BOX 📦, Multidimensional, Soul-level perspectives about this subject, that has the potential 🌱🌿🌲🌳 to further EXPAND our individual and Collective Consciousness—aka Soul growth on all energetic levels: mental, emotional, physical 🧬, and spiritual.
I simply invite you to Be a discerning, open Mind 🕯️ (to Be Wisdom without being gullible), and open Heart 💗 with health boundaries (to Be Love without being a doormat)…aka MERGED Heart/Mind 💖, that allows us to SEE 👁️👀 with CLARITY.
By the way, thank you to those of you who have shared informative, thought-provoking, highly intelligent, and/or very wise comments regarding this video that I was curious about.
Our Inner and Outer world CONFLICTS, BATTLES, and WARS—between OPPOSITE aspects of Life—has been never-ending throughout human history…
and this includes the “completely insensitive NARCISSIST” vs the “ultra-sensitive EMPATH” aspects.
The former is about extreme self-focus of selfishness—often MISTAKEN for self-love (NOT true)—and the latter focuses too much on others’ needs, while often neglecting oneself.
BOTH energetic states of being are OUT OF BALANCE & DISHARMONIOUS—swinging the pendulum to the opposite extreme, and HABITUALLY being STUCK in those states—
rather than doing the ebb and flow dance 💃🏻🕺of loving self and others (continuing further below).
Granted, there’s nothing wrong with TUNING INTO 🎛️📻📺 ALL (ultimately NEUTRAL) aspects of Life at whatever times, as long as we’re NOT habitually misusing and/or abusing Life; hence evolving rather than devolving.
Examples: When we’re Being TRANSPARENTLY HONEST with ourselves—hence, able to be honest with others as well—we may think or say things like, “Oh I could NEVER be ___ (fill in the blank with whatever negative aspect),”…
but the TRUTH is, IF we REALLY dig deep, we’ve all even tuned into the forbidden “M” word before, to include ending the lives of mosquitos 🦟, flies 🪰, cockroaches 🪳, etc.
Granted, if they were glistening, pastel rainbow 🌈 colored, we’d probably be in awe, simply admiring them.
Another commenter shared a very helpful perspective about psychopaths and their insensitive way of killing pigs, as well as what a German psychologist within a prison learned about psychopaths.
With that said, many of us within humanity may not have participated in the inhumane version of raising and butchering domesticated animals within manure-filled, JAM-PACKED, overly crowded and filthy environments—since it conveniently wasn’t our jobs to do so—BUT…
not directly participating, and just looking the other way, doesn’t equate to not sharing some degree of responsibility for the inhumane forms of animal treatment.
Purchasing meat that’s NOT humanely raised and butchered is basically supporting it, while NOT having to WITNESS the cruel and sad process.
Just something to ponder. This can be TRIGGERING to even think about, but it’s NOT meant to instill guilt and/or shame, just AWARENESS.
But if you’ve made it this far, perhaps it’s because you’ve learned about various fields of Science MERGING with (non-religious) Spirituality; nonetheless, I trust you’re ready to take a LEAP 🦗🦘in consciousness.
Some examples with the foundation that EVERYTHING is made of energy, and has a vibrational frequency: Entanglement of Quantum Physics supporting interconnected Life, the Double Spilt Experiments that show many Probabilities within the Quantum Field of Unlimited Possibilities, Cymatics, Dr. Imoto’s famous water 💧 and rice 🍚 experiments, Epigenetics, EEG, Heart Math Institute (supports much more powerful Heart leading Mind as MERGED Heart/Mind), and much more.
There are also very helpful, deeply healing, and highly effective, spiritual tools we can use to transform within, and create a better life.
And these include profound, inner work like:
Practicing BEING Prosperity Consciousness / Wealth Within FIRST AND FOREMOST—especially creating a NEW 🐣 , UPLIFTING and EMPOWERING belief, that we are Divine Self-Worth before we were ever born, since this is MANY within humanity’s CORE, childhood wound, that leads to many other NON-beneficial beliefs, and thus, many challenges and problems in our lives.
Other profound Inner Work:
Inner Child Work, and The 7 Essene Mirrors of Relationships—graciously and eloquently taught by very wise Gregg Braden (in a 2-hr YouTube video)—that expands upon Shadow Work (and not the narrow-minded version that leads to the individual and Collective, non-beneficial BLAME GAME).
Disempowering BLAME GAMES can lead to disempowering VICTIM MENTALITY that just spirals downward in a vicious cycle.
The GOAL is to Be Self-Empowered, NOT disempowered, by RELEASING the old, outdated, archaic system…
and our need to continue participating in the mainly left brain 🧠 -centered, fear-based, society-conditioned ways of being—that turns different aspects against each other (“us vs them,” “whites vs blacks,” “men vs women,” “narcissist vs empath,” the last example often heard even within spiritual communities, ETC.)….
This deeply ingrained need to FURTHER SEPARATE stems from—once AGAIN, since REPETITION of thoughts can create NEW beliefs— this OLD, OUTDATED, ARCHAIC, PATRIARCHAL world’s HEAVY influence, starting with man-made religions that’s been proven in many ways to have been created from untruths (despite some gems of true wisdom).
Physical worlds—to include planet Earth school and playground—comes with the package deal of very effective OPPOSITES/CONTRAST/DUALITY/POLARITY.
This includes, but is not limited to: 💧& 🔥/🌚&🌞/Yin & Yang/Feminine 🚺& Masculine 🚹 energies/Heart & Mind/Spirit & Soul/Goddess & God/Wave 🌊& Particle/Magnetic & Electro/ETC.
Ultra-sensitive empaths are known to attract narcissists within the spiritual communities.
These polar extreme aspects are seemingly “opposites”; however COMMA they ultimately are 2 sides of the same Cosmic Coin within an INTERCONNECTED spectrum.
It’s like the colors of a rainbow 🌈 that blends into one another, rather than being completely separate.
CONTRASTS (highly effective tools) help our physical human minds to EXPLORE, EXPERIENCE, EXPERIMENT, COMPARE, learn, grow, enjoy, and evolve.
Otherwise, without cold 🥶, we wouldn’t know hot 🥵 (and vice versa)—via experiential knowledge/wisdom—and without both aspects harmoniously MERGING as ONE (2 becoming 1), we wouldn’t be able to enJOY 🫠 what’s known as WARM.
Since Spiritual Souls within a unified ONE, Unity Consciousness state—and WITHOUT PHYSICAL FORMS/bodies—can only be aware of CONCEPTS…
ENTER highly effective PHYSICAL WORLDS of Separation Consciousness (where Souls can SEPARATE from THE ONE/SOURCE/SPIRIT, in order to EXPERIENCE MANY MIRRORS🪞of the Universe/Multiverse/Omniverse/& ♾️.
Because without MIRRORS🪞 of RELATIONSHIPS, we would not know who we are (or not), what we prefer (or not), what we look like, etc.
So I trust this intro provides some CONTEXT.
From an expanded, multidimensional, Soul-level perspective, the encounter of these two, seemingly polar opposite energies (not about the person)—the narcissistic aspect and empath aspect—are ultimately meant to balance and harmonize one another (though different from needing to stay in an abusive relationship).
Meaning, whenever a so-called narcissist shows up—and this energy WILL CONTINUE TO SHOW UP in various forms IF NOT INTEGRATED—an empath can SEE this as a Divine gift 💝💖, a blessing in disguise.
Meaning, it can serve as a GREAT REMINDER for an AWARE empath, to develop, or even further maintain, STRONG, HEALTH BOUNDARIES, and to focus LESS on others’ needs.
But rather, start focusing on unconditionally loving the Self/self: Spiritual Self and physical self.
They BOTH need to work on unconditionally loving themselves, fill their inner cups FIRST AND FOREMOST.
That way, it can effortlessly overflow to interconnected Life within this world and way beyond.
Because whenever we become DRAINED and EXHAUSTED from a barely filled or empty cup—which the narcissist energy can EASILY cause, like an “energy vampire 🧛🏽🧛🏼♀️”—we CANNOT function well, let alone continue to truly, fully, and unconditionally give to others.
Plus, if we would LOVE better relationships in our lives, we need to TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY and first CHANGE FROM WITHIN.
Then we won’t be in relationships where we expects others to fill some VOID within (or others expect this of us).
But rather, as we become more balanced and harmonious within with Unconditionally Loving more and more aspects of our Full-Potential 🌱🌿🌲🌳, Multidimensional (activating once dormant, spiritual 🧬, NOT “junk DNA”), WHOLE Self/self…
we can start attracting unconditionally loving, healthier, and supportive relationships that are ALSO moving towards BECOMING WHOLE 🌚🌓🌝: ☯️✡️🕉️⛎💖.
Unconditional love/ True Love is meant for BOTH self/others/Life, and not a one-way street.
Wishing 🌌🌠 you all the best on your spiritual/physical Self/self journeys 👣🏞️🛤️🛣️.
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The section blow made this comment too long, so I wasn’t able to include it.
Yes, I’m aware that comments aren’t meant to be novels 😁.
However, I will include it within this post, since we, as a Collective, need to deeply heal and transform the “narcissist” vs the “empath” aspect—just one example set of MANY “opposite” parts of the WHOLE Self/self/others/Life.
The “narcissist” energy can even work against ourselves as well (FROM WITHIN), and NOT just show up in others.
Example: If we’re being an extreme workaholic—while NOT allowing ourselves to have enough nutritious food, water, sleep, rest, relaxation and enJOYment of Life—well, that’s the EXTREMELY SELFISH part of ourselves taking over the whole ship (the WHOLE Self/self), and ONLY caring about the mind, work goals, money, outer recognition, and worldly accomplishments.
But there’s NO LOVE, especially COMPASSION, for the emotional, physical and spiritual energy bodies, to include our inner child/the free-spirited, PURE, aspect.
I have been guilty of this, especially while in the Army, since the downside of going up the ranks came with an increasing workload—a never-ending inbox of many things to DO DO DO (like an ENERGIZER BUNNY 🐰 ON CRACK).
Granted, to be fair to myself, I also volunteered a lot of my personal time—after work and during the weekends—helping my Soldiers and/or their families.
But still, I was more often focused on others than Self/self (Spiritual Self: at the time, non-religious version of God via learning from Mystic, Neale Donald Walsch’s books, and physical self).
Also, I’ve experienced many times within 13 years of blogging, typing MUCH faster than usual speed—without even looking at the keyboard at all (definitely NOT my usual typing ability)—which I later learned was called automatic writing (aka channeling Spirit, or various aspects and/or extensions of Spirit).
During these energetic states, I’m so INTENSELY laser-focused, that I can go through most of the day NOT feeling hungry (hence, not eating), or even drink the usual amount of water (which is typically A LOT for me for over a decade).
There’s even been times where I don’t feel tired (hence, don’t sleep), or even feel interested in outer world mundane routines, tasks, activities, foods I once enjoyed, Netflix k-dramas I once tuned into, etc.
I wondered at times if there was a part of me that was BULLDOZING other parts of me—that Teal 🦢 shared in one of her videos (that I sporadically tune into with discernment).
I then learned recently from profoundly wise Soul Teachers, of how one increasingly disconnects more from what one “should” DO DO DO in Life, by becoming more focused on Being (first and foremost), especially Being Creative, as one expands their individual and Collective Consciousness.
Granted, I’m learning that despite the importance of the creative process of Life, it still needs to comes with a balanced and harmonious way of taking better care of our physical bodies.
If we lean too much towards spiritual ways, WITHOUT also Being GROUNDED, then we can also become LOST, just like mostly living in left brain 🧠 centered ways of this society.
Mystic Sadhguru once shared an initially funny, and then deeply heartfelt story.
In a nutshell (and I’m paraphrasing from what I recall), there was a REALIZED older man in India, who LOVED delicious foods.
So much so, that whenever his wife was in the kitchen cooking, he would rush to her side, and excitedly ask what’s for dinner.
Unfortunately, his wife—[my 2 cents ➡️ who had been deeply ingrained by society’s judgmental beliefs]—told her husband that she was ashamed of him, because a spiritual man shouldn’t be so obsessed with food.
He shared with her that when he suddenly and completely loses interest in food, know that he has 3 days left.
And sure enough, when he passed away, his wife cried deeply.
[my 3 cents ➡️ but if a child were to excitedly ask what’s for dinner, the child most likely wouldn’t be judged.
So why is a deeply, spiritual man—who has the FREE-SPIRIT and ZEST for Life (like a child)—judged?]
If I recall correctly, Sadhguru also shared something to the effect of:
When one becomes REALIZED—[I supposed ENLIGHTENED while still within the physical body (rather than ascending, like ancient, Ascended Masters)]—then there needs to be certain PHYSICAL and/or MATERIAL WORLD DESIRES to GROUND such a BEING.
Otherwise, there’s no motivation to continue experiencing physical version life.
This makes perfect sense—and even FEELS light to the Heart—since I’ve learned that BEINGS with extremely high vibrational frequencies, need to be GROUNDED to continue existing within a physical form.
I recently learned more about this BEINGness, which is especially true if one is REALIZED—NOT about striving for, or trying to force Enlightenment (which cannot be forced)—but allowing it to naturally blossom 🪷 from within, REALIZING a much greater possibility and potential within the WHOLE Self/self, in the present NOW moments (also shared by Sadhguru).
And this REALIZATION can reveal itself in the form of an EYE 👁️ appearing during a meditative state, which instantly reminded me of my experience recorded in a past post, “ .
It is one of the many ways that the Divine—The One of Many Names, but ultimately The Nameless—can SHOW UP in our lives, MIRRORING🪞 to us (as Outer World) our ALIGNMENT with Source from within.
And when there’s more 2 or more signs 🪧 from the Universe, this is that particular series of Divine Synchronicity (NOT coincidences).