Intro: I shared this message for the creator of the image on right => Thank you for sharing this powerful image.
Planet Earth reminds me of a Soul incarnated within a physical body; and on a grander scale, humanity within physical world of duality/polarity.
Image by Myriams-Fotos from Pixabay
The blazing fire reminds me of the excess (key word) and out of control, masculine energies of our often worrying, logical minds, due to wanting to desperately survive Life’s seemingly countless challenges.
Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay
But we have the potential within us at all times to THRIVE in Life in a love-based way, rather than merely survive in a fear-based way.
Poster on right created using the free, online tool, canva.com, as well as: 1) Image by Gerhard from Pixabay & 2) Image by Miles Moody from Pixabay
The vast, deep, and calm ocean reminds me of the commanding Full Presence, Profound Wisdom, Unconditional Love, and immense Divine Power of the Heart/Divine Mother Goddess essence [that contains God essence], that has the ability to deeply heal and transform all of us on an individual and Collective level.
Image by Myriams-Fotos from Pixabay
The two ships on each side of this image—that appears to be sailing on top of elevated, Light golden water—reminds me of the two sides of the same Cosmic Coin that have embraced one another, are at peace with one another, and have risen like a fiery Phoenix Birdย from the “dark”/unknown ashes (or from the dark gray/shadow side of the ocean).
Image by Youssef Jheir from Pixabay
They are like the Balance and Harmony of the integrated Mind/Heart (with the much more ancient and wiser Heart leading the mind).
Image by Krzysztof Niewolny from Pixabay
And this merge of the Divine Feminine (Yin/Spirit) & Divine Masculine (Yang/Soul) energies within each of us can co-create our own versions of Heaven on Earth, when we choose to BELIEVE it is possible.
I couldn’t resist adding this NEUTRAL observation, and absolutely NOT because my mind is in the gutter! LOL
The image of the translucent snail on right looks like an erect penis, deeply yearning to be touched by the juicy red fruit daggling from the Tree of Life. You know you SEE it too.
Image by Selling of my photos with StockAgencies is not permitted from Pixabay
Anyhoo, WHY NOT co-create our own version of Heaven on Earth?
Even the most valid and precise science (Quantum Physics) supports that our Universe and beyond (The Quantum Field) contains unlimited possibilities and probabilities.
Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay
And since we are energetically connected—despite whatever logical, calculated distance between us—what can happen for self can happen for others, and vice versa, and what benefits self, benefits others, and vice versa (whether in this particular reality, or other parallel or alternate realities). I used this for post: [this one]
Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay
I shared the following message for video, “Low Vibration Friends… (& 5 Signs It’s Time To Move On)“:
Thank you Vic for a beautiful, heartfelt message, especially the unexpected part (a nice twist ๐).
I’ve let go of certain relationships in the past (to include this summer) that you described because I had noticed a pattern that these relationships were habitually (key word): unhealthy, non-beneficial, one-sided, non-supportive, HEAVY feeling, and/or draining.
And when I let them go, I actually FELT lighter and much more free, so I don’t regret it.
I’ve also noticed that I’ve been increasingly maintaining healthy boundaries in a more confident, BOLD, and unapologetic way, which I communicated to myself that I’m proud of, and that I love myself for such empowering decisions.
However COMMA I’m open to various forms of CHANGE—in self/others/interconnected Life within this world and beyond—hence, if I happened to cross paths again with these previous relationships (whether in person or via text, phone call, email, etc.), and it intuitively FEELS authentic and light/true to my Heart, then I’m willing to reconnect.
But I’ve also learned that it’s definitively wise to be cognizant and discerning of this type of decision as well ([personal] example further down), which relates to your former best friend story.
For your situation with your former best friend, I have no doubt that HOW everything played out was “imperfectly” perfect in every way, and happened in Divine perfect timing and order; hence, there’s no need for any regrets (regrets being a very low vibration itself).
And the major Life lesson—that you’re obviously ready for on all energetic levels—may be the question, “Will you (Victor) choose judgment or Unconditional Love towards yourself in this scenario?”
Because it’s WAY TOO EASY to choose what many would choose due to societal conditioning since childhood.
But you and many others, are NOT here in this particular lifetime (of accelerated ascension) to do EASY.
I fully trust that YOU/ME/WE are here for a COSMIC RODEO that we can effortlessly ride when we connect with our Divine essence within, Be in alignment with our integrated Heart/Mind, and choose to do so at any given present moment.
Our logical minds may NOT know or comprehend the HOW and WHY of Life’s happenings, but I trust that our Higher Selves (and even Highest Selves)—aka Spirit & Soul/Yin & Yang/Spiritual Self/I AM Presence/Goddess-Self & God-Self/Source/Universe/Multiverse/Omniverse/etc.—intuitively and experientially KNOW what is everyone’s highest benefit.
So from a logical perspective, even though it seemed like you and your former best friend missed out on an opportunity to reconnect, I trust that it was for the best for everyone involved NOT to do so.
I’ve been noticing for a long time that whenever I’m curious about something, and wonder about it, I find out in Divine perfect timing and order; so I have no doubt that you will too since we’re all energetically connected.
Plus, your friend will always have a place in your Heart, which is what truly matters at the end of the day.ย I trust you’ll make peace with you and your friend from within.
I also realize that I can be more discerning when it comes to starting new friendships by closely paying attention to, following, and fully trusting my Heart/intuition/gut feeling/inner-wisdom/insights/other psychic abilities, that can sometimes be subtle messages.
For instance, certain key words that another expresses—and even non-verbal cues that are known to be about 80% of communication—can inform us of important information (i.e., whether or not we’re a resonating match, or NOT).
I recently realized that like a free-spirited and very trusting Siberian Husky—my first pet dog who passed away, and was one of my main spirit guides MIRRORING various aspects—I can be this way too often times, and trust people too quickly. I’ve been told once, by a former co-worker, “I know you want to see the good in others, but ______ is not like that.”
It’s not that I place people that I like on a pedestal, but I would often get excited about others’ wonderful qualities when I first meet them.
But I would then experience a tsunami of “negative” aspects reveal themselves not too long afterwards (a recurring pattern).
So I’ve learned the invaluable Life lesson of balancing and harmonizing the aspects of being open arms, but in a wise and discerning way, especially when it comes to choosing close relationships like friends.
Vic, you’ve often helped me to process what I’ve needed to express in healthy ways, so THANK YOU SO MUCH again.
Below is my personal example that’s basically me sorting out my own thoughts, feelings, insights, etc., so you don’t need to read it, unless you feel like exploring it in case you can learn something from it.
In a nutshell, I created distance with my mother in Korea by not calling her for six years.
Because when she continued to be verbally and emotionally abusive, I asked her to stop, since it had been going on since childhood and throughout adulthood.
But she kept coming at me, and even told me that I had a bad personality for even bringing that up; so I realized that this conversation wasn’t going anywhere.
Anyhoo, fast-forward to years later, and my Korean cousin contacted me via social media, and informed me that my mother had a stroke. So I reconnected with her, and have been calling her 2-4 times per month since then.
The obvious abuse hasn’t been present, but the distant and disapproving tone, indirect comments, absence of emotional support, short answers, sarcasm, and other forms of inauthentic connection and communication were like bricks that were gradually piled on top of my heart chakra area of my chest.
And whenever I asked if she was okay, she would answer that everything was fine, when it clearly wasn’t (which I even mentioned, but she was adamant that she was, so I let it go).
So the point is, the relationship continues to FEEL unpleasant, HEAVY, draining, and NOT an ongoing experience I look forward to; but like you, a non-beneficial, society-conditioned, false belief of “what I should do/the “RIGHT” and “GOOD” thing to do” has caused me to feel GUILTY about fully letting go of this situation (or at least how I’ve been PERCEIVING it).
I realize that I do have the CHOICE to SHIFT my perspective into a 5D+, expanded, unlimited, Multidimensional, Higher Self one, rather than a 3D, narrow, limited, linear, human perspective.
And that is, to simply Be fully present with my mother whenever I conversate with her over the phone, share much UNconditional Love and wisdom (if she seems receptive to it), and allow the lower vibrations of her negativity to be transmuted (raised) by the higher vibrational frequencies.
Granted, she would be the only exception for this type of one-way relationship since she’s already in her late 80’s, and may not have that much time left on Earth.
But then again, my Korean grandmother lived until she was in her late 90’s, and she even smoked. So the question I need to ask myself is whether or not I’m willing to do this dance for another decade or longer.
Because if it continues to FEEL tiring, then I owe it to myself to LET GO of HABITUALLY HEAVY.
I also realized that I can simply ask my mother if she’s truly happy to connect; because if not, then we can peacefully go our separate ways rather than pretend that everything’s okay; I’m going to ask her tonight.
I’m realizing more and more that authentic, honest, and tactful communication that stems from Unconditional Love (for self/others) can provide SOLUTIONS to many human problems.
And last but not least, I realized that, ultimately, the #1 relationship that we all need to be the most aware of, is the one with ourselves.
I have no doubt that we can all highly benefit by being cognizant of the type of habitual dialogue we have with ourselves (positive or negative), whether or not we embrace our authentic emotions and honor our inner truths (to include true feelings), and if we’re unconditionally loving ourselves daily, to the best of our ability.
Do we choose limiting fear or unlimited love?
Do we choose to be disempowered (via victim mentality) or empowered (via Victor mentality)?
Do we choose to be our own worst enemy, or our own best friend?
Do we choose to be unfulfilled, or fulfilled?
Do we choose to believe that we deserve a mediocre life, or the best in Life?
And depending on the answers, we will experience matching, outer world realities that we created from our own beliefs (developed with the repetition of our habitual thoughts and feelings, whether positive or negative).
So the above, and other similar, highly beneficial questions, are something we can incorporate into our daily lives in order to Be an ever developing, greater version of ourselves—our Full-Potential, Multidimensional, WHOLE self (physical self)/Self (Divine Self: Spirit & Soul)—and to create and live a better life.
And to do so, we must practice expanding our perspectives (to SEE with CLARITY the BIGGER picture of Life)/expand our individual and Collective Consciousness/grow on all energetic levels—mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual, and even financial via Prosperity Consciousness rather than poverty consciousness.
Have a pleasant week Vic of FLOWING with Life’s Cosmic River! ๐๐ณ๐ฌ๐
Related Blog Post
I came upon this reading that relates to the poster I created above, that I will insert here again as a reminder.
The title of this helpful reading is, “Survive Vs Thrive. Ready to Shift from One to the Other?: 5 Strategies to Show You How“ by Laura Raduenz
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