I shared this comment for the creator of this image => Image by Gordon Johnson from Pixabay:
Thank you Gordon for sharing this image, that instantly reminded me of the profound symbolism, that contained within ALL Souls of interconnected Life, are various vibrational energies—like low/dense energies of the color red (or energy of fear) through the high/light energies of the color violet (or energy of compassion)––within the merged Light & Unconditional Love Frequency spectrum (i.e., we are all uniquely different, yet, the same, at our core essence/Source: Soul & Spirit within). I used it for post: [this one]
I shared the following comment for video, “Soulmates & Soul Family – (How To Tell If They’re REALLY A Soulmate Relationship)“:
Wow, this video message was immensely helpful, providing clarifications and confirmations to what I had sensed, but wasn’t able to fully understand, thank you so much Victor.
Earlier this month I had let go of a fairly new relationship after being on a vicious cycle, hamster wheel for 2 months, and recently, I started a creative project with a very witty former coworker, who wasn’t pulling his weight and started a pattern of making excuses.
Thanks to you Victor, I was able to take into consideration the Life lessons to be learned from these situations—the former relationship, to have healthier boundaries and to say “NO MORE” despite that person having a big heart and her own wonderful qualities, and the latter relationship, to continue the project with or without him (which I actually told him before we started, but he initially said he was very excited).
I highly resonate with your suggestion to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY; otherwise, these patterns of triggers WILL repeat themselves, via the same people, or others, the way it’s happened AGAIN (the same dynamic as you said).
So the first relationship was mirroring to me my own old habits of being stuck in victim mentality, often feeling sorry for self, sharing the same past and current stories over and over again, procrastinating in major ways, postponing projects, and not believing in myself; and the second relationship was mirroring to me how I often whine (within), believe that I’m stuck within a miserable life, and continue to make excuses.
Right after I typed this, I received a text message from the second relationship expressing his sudden trust and enthusiasm about our creative project again (that I had introduced recently), though about 30 minutes prior to that moment, he had texted a reason for not meeting up today to create our intro video.
Interesting, this immediate mirroring of change within, though it often takes much TIME for our outer world to reflect inner world changes, especially major transformations.
Since that worked out surprisingly, I’m going to embrace and integrate 2 other challenging relationships.
I noticed that I kept butting heads with one of my EMF Community Managers, and I realized that she kept triggering me because she was mirroring an old, outdated, fear-based energy that stemmed from my mother.
Whenever I was willing to be vulnerable—individually, or in a group setting, like a live Community call—she would respond to me in a seemingly distant, cold, insensitive, and/or judgmental manner, while being very supporting, encouraging, uplifting, empowering, and inspiring to all the other members.
My mother often was this way during my childhood, while being the opposite towards my close cousins (who were like my older sisters).
When I go DEEPER INTO THE COSMIC RABBIT HOLE, I realize that this old wound of feeling discriminated goes even further down the pitch black abyss.
My mother once shared with me (when I was an adult) how resentful she felt towards my Korean grandmother for discriminating against her daughters (by often treating her sons well and believing in them).
So how to deeply heal from such an old wound that was passed down from god knows how many generations?
Well, I trust that the answer lies within in order to STOP THE OUTER BLAME GAME; to discontinue discriminating within oneself.
So rather than expressing to self that one aspect(s) is better than or more right than another, it’s being able to Be neutral with ALL aspects within full-potential, Multidimensional, WHOLE self/Self, while also [unconditionally loving the whole, to include] having pure compassion towards all aspects (i.e., Spirit’s PURE COMPASSION different from humanity’s compassion that needs to rescue).
Being this way will allow us to Be Neutral with our outer world as well, allowing FREE diversity within Unity Consciousness, and not needing to judge self/others/interconnected Life within this world and way beyond.
So what about an adult son who often contacts (and is buddy-buddy) when he needs or wants something, but then habitually ignores my messages and immediately disconnects after he gets what he wants?
Well, even though I love him unconditionally (and I always will), I realize that allowing him to continue being this way is not benefiting him/others/interconnected Life.
Even though it was Christmas yesterday, I chose not to contact him (for the first time), since 1) I’m letting go of ALL habitually unhealthy relationships before the New Year of 2022 (regardless of who it is, even family), and 2) if he contacts me again, I will be transparently and even brutally honest with him this time.
And that is, though I’ve crossed paths with MANY Christians in almost 50 years of my life, I’ve only met a handful who actually seemed to follow Jesus’ love-based teachings, and walk the talk/lead by example.
The rest—especially him, his new wife (an even more hard-core “Christian”), and his cult-like community of family-like friends—are HANDS DOWN, the most conditionally loving examples of Christians I’ve ever met.
They are often respectful and kind to those whom they can convince to accept their rigid beliefs, and habitually disrespectful and unkind to others—though they like to frequently preach the bible, baptize new members, and do so much “good” church work—which instantly reminds me of the quote from the bible (had to look up) Matthew 7:21–23 : I Never Knew You
21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons vin your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’
[Example stories from summer of 2021 within post, “The Cosmic Dance of Our Intuitive Heart & Logical Mind.“] UPDATE post added 12/30/2021, “The Start of an Unknown, Cosmic River Ride Into the New Year of 2022“: having the most authentic phone conversation with my adult son.
So what can I learn from this? To re-member, via CONTRAST, who I prefer NOT to be; hence, positioning me closer to THAT which I prefer to Be.
Thank you Vic for sharing the very helpful bus stop analogy that sounds similar to something I heard a while back, I think from one of Neale Donald Walsch’s books from within 2 decades ago; this reminds me to be very grateful for all of our Soulmates/earthly and otherworldly relationships who assist us in our growth and evolution on all energetic levels—mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual—despite what the situations may appear like on the outer surface.
Update
Same day
Shortly after publishing this post, I received a text message from a wonderful and wise Soul whom I had befriended this past autumn (around September) while I was participating in Peter Sage’s course, Ultimate Self Mastery (though I discontinued it after starting his Elite Mentorship Trainer/EMT program, that includes the Elite Mentorship Forum/EMF course).
It’s easy to initially think that whatever suddenly shows up in one’s outer reality—that seems to interrupt a current experience—is not beneficial.
However COMMA if we’re willing to take a brief moment to Be fully present, and connect with whatever shows up in our outer reality, we become receptive to receive the gift(s).
After I did this, I realized that my friend asking me a seemingly trivial, unrelated, and meaningless question, turned out to be DEEPLY related to my current situation, to include this post.
The following is my reply to his question (which he then replied was deep as well, mirroring my own insight that it IS):
I’m pretty sure you know a lot that I don’t since EXPERIENCE (experiential knowledge/wisdom) is a GREAT TEACHER.
I think the earliest cartoons that I recall are Alice in Wonderland and Mighty Mouse, which (thanks to you bringing it up) reminds me that when we’re willing to DIVE DEEP into the Cosmic [Rabbit]🐇 Hole—like Shadow Work that Peter teaches, or even the expanded version of The 7 Essene Mirrors gracefully taught by Gregg Braden—we can Become Mighty Souls (like Mighty Mouse), though our egos may feel small.
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